As a professional psychic who gives one Free Psychic Reading, I am constantly getting the question” where is my soul mate, where can I find them?”This is one of the most difficult questions to answer as we may often run across many different soul mates in our lives depending on what lessons we have to learn about love and relationships using from them using our own free will.If you realize that the divorce rate is at about 50%, one must understand that to find a true and lasting soul mate sometimes we must go through a few partners and learn a few lessons before we are ready for that best of all possible relationship to enter our lives.So many people wish to romanticize the ideal of a perfect person that exists for them without realizing that they themselves are not quite perfect, or ready to understand the differences in mentality that exists with the opposite sex. This is where a good psychic comes in. We help you learn how to make better choices and to point you in the right direction so that you can learn not only to be a better partner, but also make better choices when searching for and choosing a partner.Men and women think very differently when it comes to relationships. Both usually want relationships and lasting love but their approach is quite different. And this is where the trouble begins. Often women will pursue a man may feel a strong connection with feeling that it will bring him to her, only to be disappointed when he pulls away. This is because men do not like to be chased. Their instincts are that of one who likes to hunt. So one of the lessons that many women need to learn when searching for a soul meet, is to be patient not to pursue, call or text the man before he contacts you. Even if it takes him longer than you would like. Many women often ask me “while won't that make him think I'm not interested?” Quite the opposite, it will make him think that you are needy and could possibly ruin what would have been a wonderful relationship.As for men, I find that they often have difficulty understanding that when women complain about their day, friends, work they really only want someone to empathize with them. Men often find this frustrating because they want to fix the situation and give advice. This often needs to miscommunication and hurt feelings.So you see that on the road to finding your soul mate sometimes we have more than one relationship to teach us these lessons in the differences between how the two sexes think. So when seeking a soul mate realize that you are also learning a lesson through this person, and when asking for your psychic reading, sometimes it is best to ask how to find your soul mate and what lessons you need to learn on the path to finding that right love. You may find that you will be directed to your next relationship but sometimes it is a relationship that is simply meant to teach you. So embrace your free will and be aware that psychics are there to guide you through your path of life lessons to help you gain the best possible results to bring you love and happiness.